Diwali is the ‘festival of lights’ that celebrates the ‘triumph of good over evil’ and is the biggest and most popular festival in India. It is a time when all family and friends come together, and celebrate like there’s no tomorrow. It all starts on Dhantheras and is when the Indian business community begin their financial year and it is meant to be an auspicious day to start new transactions. And five days later is the actual day of Diwali. The entire week, several offices are shut early, people party all night and burst crackers. People shop and wear new clothes, houses are decorated with footsteps of Lakshmi (god of wealth) and Dias (lamps).
Dhantheras is an auspicious day for buying silver, as it is a symbol of wealth coming into the house. Because of this, the price of gold and silver goes up significantly on this day. Sales on electronics in the month in which Diwali occurs quadruples is certain stores and areas.
There are particular items we eat in Diwali, just like there are specific things people eat during Thanksgiving. What people eat also depends on their geographical location and the community they belong to. For members of my community, known as the Marwari’s some of the things we eat are Khichdi, Badi, Puri, Sabji etc.
Diwali is celebrated because one of the Hindu gods, who was a prince known as Ram returned home from his 14 yearlong exile which his father Dasarha sentenced him to due to a promise he made to one of his wives and Ram’s step mother Kaikeyi. During the 14 year long exile Ram goes to war with an evil and powerful king named Ravana, and it is because of his victory over here that we celebrate the triumph of good over evil.
During Diwali, all families either cook or buy sweet and send it to houses of their friends. In my family, we normally make sweets ourselves and send them to about a hundred families we are close to. And we intern also get about a 100 boxes of sweets or goodies. So this is also a period when people eat a lot of sweets. On the night of Diwali, we do pooja (prayer) both in our offices and our homes at an auspicious time, followed by everyone who goes back to their house and eats dinner with their family.
This is why, we buy 30 kilos of sugar and 10 litres of ghee this month, and it disappears from our storeroom in a week.
As a child dinner with the family would be the best part. All the men of the house ate out of one plate and the woman ate out of another. We guys would sit on the cushioned floor with a comfortable table and a huge plate (20 inches in diameter). My grandfather would mix the food and give us all a bite before we could start eating. Being the youngest boy in the house I always got the first bite, followed by my father, his elder brother and finally my grandfather. After which we would all mix our own food and eat out of the same plate. The woman of the house did the same thing, except they sat in the dining table.
One of the sweets we traditionally make is called ‘daitra’ and to make it we need whole wheat flour, ghee, sugar, saffron, cardamom and sugar syrup. First we knead the whole wheat flour adding a little ghee in a cup of flour, then add water and knead. We then make round balls and roll them like thick flat bread, we then prick it with a fork several times and let aside to dry. Next you add ghee to the wok and heat it till it boils, upon boiling you put the cut up flat breads in the ghee to fry until golden brown. We then dip these hot friend golden breads in sugar syrup, which can be freshly prepared by boiling sugar and water. And last garnish it with cardamom and saffron.